This year, my writing journey has taken another step forward, and I am privileged to announce that one of my pieces has been published in Chicken Soup for the Soul’s “I’m Speaking Now.” This collection of stories shares experiences of triumph, love, pain, hope, and more, written by an all Black ensemble of women authors.…
Read MoreThe Ghosts We Live With
It’s the time of year where scary things get their time to shine. Halloween is coming and everyone’s imaginations are dialed up as they ready themselves to don costumes representing their wildest dreams, their funniest jokes, or their worst nightmares. Some participants are tiptoeing through haunted houses and watching horror films, taunting fear as a…
Read MoreLiving With Anxiety
It took me a long time to seek help, so it took me a long time to put a name to what I had been feeling for several years. I was diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder years ago, and when I thought maybe the doctors were wrong, I was diagnosed again by two more doctors.…
Read MoreApple Pie Moonshine
Although the autumnal equinox is the thing that tells us when the season formally clicks from summer to fall, it’s never official in my house until I make my annual batch of Apple Pie Moonshine in early October. I’m not a recipe blogger, but due to demand I’ll share my recipe because it’s damn good…
Read MoreOf Mice and Men… and Women
Last Saturday, I stretched out across the bed with the sunlight streaming through the window. I was in that space between sleep and awake. The peaceful moment that welcomed me into a new day was interrupted as I sensed my husband standing in the doorway, looking at me. “There’s a mouse in the house.” He…
Read MoreFrom Muskets to Margaritas
Cinco de Mayo is my second favorite holiday. I have to be honest and admit that when I was in college my fascination with the holiday began because I developed a love for tequila and always had a love of Mexican food. As I matured and became an adult who looks much more deeply at…
Read MoreEulogy For My Abs
Like a lot of moms, I have been struggling to accept my post-baby body. Basically, I didn’t accept it. Instead I’ve been dieting and exercising in an attempt to unearth the old me hidden beneath the layers of allowed pregnancy cravings, exhaustion, stress-eating and breastfeeding hunger. I’ve been eating clean 90% of the time and…
Read MoreWax On, Wax Off
Since my Mother’s Day meltdown, I have realized I need to start taking better care of myself. I need to make an effort to do things that make me feel good about me again and not dumping 100% of my energy into everyone and everything else. At over 5 months pregnant for the second time…
Read MoreThe Sands of Time
When did you first realize you were aging? I know the exact moment it hit me. I was 27. I learned that year that the maximum age to try out for American Idol was 28. It offended me that even if I had a massive hidden talent I could soon be too old for it…
Read MoreThe Second Season
Life can sometimes eat up every ounce of energy and motivation you have and leave you only able to focus on the few things that absolutely cannot be neglected. I’ve been in that space for the past 7 months. Between a major project at work, parenting, pregnancy and sometimes managing to make my bed here…
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